29 April, 2009

Experience teaches the Essence of Life…

Here is a conversation I have framed between a mother and her child and this is particularly directed to those parents who care for their infant children excessively…



When it started raining outside dear mother, you said, “Don’t go out dear, if you get drenched in the rain, you will catch cold”. I followed your words mother, but I never knew how the touch of a cool rain droplet felt like…

When the southern breeze blew through the window dear mother, you said, “Close the window panes dear, dust will settle on your throat and cough will bother you”. I followed your words mother, but I never knew how it felt when the moisture in the wind caresses the cheeks…

On the first day of my summer vacation dear mother, you said, “Stay indoors dear, the hot sun rays will burn your skin”. I followed your words mother, but I never knew how the warmth of a sun ray feels like…

When I was about to lay hands on the novel beside my pillow dear mother, you said, “Sleep dear, if you go on reading till late night, your eyes will strain and your sight gets shorter”. I followed your words mother, but I never experienced the thrill in finishing an interesting novel within a short period…

As long as I was in your lap, it was like heaven my dear mother but as I grew up, one fine day, you stopped suddenly and told me to go ahead and face the outside World on my own. But mother; the path in front is full of storms, full of heat, full of heavy wind and full of stresses and strains.

The child starts questioning now:

You never allowed me to know the rain mother, now how do you think I can face storms?”

You never allowed me to know the warmth of a sun ray mother, now how do you think I can face the heat?

You never allowed me to know the touch of gentle breeze mother, now how do you think I can face the heavy wind?

You never allowed me to strain my eyes for a few minutes mother, now how do you think I can face the bigger stresses and strains of life?

The mother gets tears, hugs her child, plants a kiss on the forehead and says, “Yes dear, I should have given you one chance to know the minimum basic realities of life which would have given you confidence to boldly face the World today…

8 comments:

Onkar said...

The first part of the piece is actually poetry in prose. You have very correctly conveyed the perils of overprotection.

Sandhya said...

Beautiful, Sai. Where did you get the idea? I have noticed that children who stay with their parents till their college days, find it very difficult to cope up the stress of managing everything alone, when they opt to go out of the city for their first job. The children who go out to study in some other place, get the opportunity to manage their lives along with other friends, come out well in their lives.

You have depicted these things very well in your post, Sai. Did you show this to your mother? She will be happy to know how you have bloomed out to be! Good luck, Sai.

Sai Charan said...

@Onkarji:

Thanks a lot for writing your opinion.

Yes, first I started to write a poem, but I couldn't manage to weave it to perfection, especially the last part.

Sai Charan said...

@Sandhyaji:

I took this idea from my own life. This post is a page from my childhood diaries.

My mother knows it well, because I was the child who questioned her and it was my own mother who hugged me in the end.

Sandhyaji, every time I write a new post, you take time to visit Beyond Barriers... and write your opinion on the post. Thanks a lot Sandhyaji, I always respect our friendship.

Anonymous said...

Wow. That's all I can say really, it was beautiful and a pleasure to read.

Sai Charan said...

Hi Magenta,

I express my gratitude to you for taking time and leaving your signature on this post :)

Glad that you liked it, this experience of mine dates back to my school days :)

My mother helped me learn the realities of life pretty quickly and I went on to face the World boldly :)

Magenta Fire said...

Unrelated Comment:

I am sorry to say I am no longer going to be blogging. I have already deleted my account and blogs. I need to focus on the real world and my horses need me more then my readers do, I will still write my stories and I may publish them some day but for now I am going to fallow what's right in front of me.

Thank you for being such a loyal reader, please let anyone who asks know why I stopped blogging.

Good luck in your endeavors,
your friend,
Magenta Fire.

Sai Charan said...

Hi Magenta,

Such a shocking news and that too so suddenly? Does staying in touch with your well wishers really disturb you from concentrating on your duties?

If you feel that loneliness will bring you success in life then keep going, this circle of your friends will always pray for your well being.

Friendship is a divine blessing of God; it is so heart breaking to lose our best friends and it pains even more when we can’t communicate with them again. Blogging is quite different from friendship.

May God shower his choicest blessings upon you and your family my friend, may you be successful in every task you take up.

This blogger family will miss one of its ever-smiling members and as a token of our friendship, hope you will care to send just a simple “Hi” of yours sometime in future to my email i.d. given in my profile page.

Take care, Good luck,
Will always be your Friend,
Charan.