09 February, 2012

Unconditional Love...

Dear Readers, this is the 100th post of Beyond Barriers... thank you all for the support and encouragement since 2008 :)

Does true love really exist beyond movies and novels? How exactly does it feel to love or be loved by someone unconditionally?

Loving a person as a whole, for what they really are, accepting their flaws, having no complaints or demands, genuinely caring and wishing for their happiness, expecting nothing in return. Can we call it as unconditional love?


Based on our personal experiences, each one of us might have a different definition for this, but still its more or less the same.

A mother loves her child when he is obedient; when that same child disobeys her, spoils the house, she will still love him the same and nothing less. So irrespective of the child's actions and choices, parents love remains unconditional.

Some get it from family, some from friends, some feel it while praying to God, some from their pets, etc. Unconditional love is in every bond, but once people start expecting something in return, it seizes to exist, else it flows forever in the hearts which are open and innocent.

Love is real when we appreciate a person straight from the heart, this bridges gaps, differences, allowing hearts to blossom. This theory need not relate to lovers love, it can hold good to any relationship.

Unconditional love requires a little compromise, some sacrifice and willingness to look from the other person's perspective. If we are ready for it, then we can have it.

Start giving the love which you really wish to receive, Start loving unconditionally... 

Have a nice day, take care :)