Live your Way!!

Dear Readers, now that I am done with my assignments, am back to sharing thoughts...

How often do you compromise, please, adjust - at home, work - with family, friends? at some point you find yourself just living for others around you, wheres your life gone, you too have a choice, don't you? 

I've seen people struggling with the choice between pleasing others and doing what they want to do. Its easy to say, "Just be yourself, be nice, polite, share happiness and do good to everyone", how perfect would the world be if that would've worked? Reality is different, people judge you, have different opinions, values, expectations, what not.

There are people who wish to keep everyone around them happy, but it doesn't work always, sometimes you are criticized, not everyone likes or appreciates what you do. Its hard to overlook what people think of you and it leaves you uncomfortable when someone disapproves your actions or thinks bad of you.

Why please others before yourself, value your opinion, do what you like and live life your way!!

Some may find it right, some wrong, but always stick to your way, only that will keep you happy!! :)

Take care, have a nice day :) 

Being Selfless! :)

How does it feels like to be selfless, good isn't it? 

Hey, I am no Saint to give a lecture on selflessness, cause am selfish too, but every time you sacrifice something, small or big, for the sake of others happiness, you are left with a good feeling, some satisfaction and contentment!

Not many people think of others when it comes to decision on their own comforts. If just a small sacrifice from your side is making someone happy - be it family, friends or anyone, then don't hesitate, just do it to see them happy in the end!!

Those who always wish good for everyone around them, are able to derive joy out of others happiness,  isn't their joy getting doubled? Cause they are happy when they succeed and happy when others succeed too!! they enjoy the bliss of a pure heart which is jealousy free!!

I am not talking philosophy here, but people live, people die, generations come, generations go, new weird diseases strike, natural disasters, accidents, what not!! there is everything out there that makes our future unpredictable. So, living in this world just for the sake of surviving is not a big deal, anyone can do that - but how you live is what that counts!!

Someday when you turn old, sit there on that chair in the lawn watching the sunset with your grandchild on your lap, don't you think you should be proud to take him on a walk through the lanes of your memories, explain him how you sacrificed for others happiness, how you derived satisfaction out of helping others!

Being selfless is the sign of a Content Soul!!

Take good care, have a nice day :)

Happy 2012! :)

Hearty wishes to all my friends here on blogger for a very Wonderful 2012 ahead!! :)

May 2012 be an amazing year for everyone of us, that is a sincere prayer from heart! Wishing all your dreams come true, as the year begins, let it spread happiness, health, prosperity and blessings of God to every home! :)

Take care, enjoy your new year day! :)