Are you ready to spend some time in a nice conversation? Well, let's talk about my favourite subject today :) Yes, you guessed it right, romance it is! :)
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This post is inspired by a poem which I wrote 2 years ago,
"Poem: Heart to Heart!!" :)
When I said,
"Our souls naked, In complete honesty", I had a story to tell. These two lines might sound simple but they speak volumes.
In the past, we've had interesting insights into this subject through:
I will start the topic by sharing the powerful quote by writer Dominic Matthew Jackson,
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"You think you’ve seen her naked because she took her clothes off? Tell me about her dreams. Tell me what breaks her heart. What is she passionate about, and what makes her cry? Tell me about her childhood. Better yet, tell me one story about her that you’re not in."
"You’ve seen her skin, and you’ve touched her body. But you still know as much about her as a book you once found, but never got around to opening."
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Instead of writing all my thoughts in a long paragraph, I prefer to write them as points to make it easier to read.
1. When you fall in love with a girl, you obviously look into how beautiful her heart is but you need to also look into her soul - do you know why? Cause there you will find the true girl that lives within her.
2. You need to get a soul connection with her, an emotional connection and that happens only when you get a deeper sense of understanding of who she is.
3. Listen to all her childhood stories, learn about what hurts her, what makes me cry, her passions, her hobbies, her interests, her dislikes. So along with knowing every inch of her body, you need to also know every inch of her soul.
4. It is a lot of work, but building a relationship is like building a home - the stronger you lay the foundation, the stronger it grows.
5. Be open, be real and live in the truth of what and who she is and love all of it and don't be afraid to show intimacy.
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6. You need to have a clear understanding of her - not just the persona she projects to the outside world but the real her, the inner being in her.
7. Observe on what lies beneath her smile, her tears, her laughter and her silence - you'll know her better the more you observe.
8. When you make her feel home, when she feels most comfortable and ease in your presence, then she's gonna open herself up like a book.
9. Your girl is not just a physical body, she is something more, she is a soul just like you. You will never really know her until you've seen her soul. So, dive into the joyous depths to meet the true her. The day you do that she will treat you right and she will hold on tight.
10. Take the time to reach that depth. Make love to her mind before you make love to her body.
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11. Encourage her, let her turn passionate and she will also learn everything about you and you both will grow together.
12. The day she trusts that you love the real her, she will do anything for you. Most people think that just by living with a girl and having sex - they know the real her. But until you open the book of her soul and genuinely show interest in learning everything about her - you won't really know her.
13. Touch her soul first and when you eventually touch her body, she will feel even more glorious from within her inner self.
14. The true beauty of a woman lies deep beneath her skin, it's in the core of her soul. Beauty is only skin deep.
15. Travel the journey until you reach her mind and continue until you reach her naked soul, only then you will know the real her.
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16. Every girl has the innate need to be heard, to be touched, to be understood, to be connected and to belong - with an ultimate goal to give and to receive love.
17. There is more to explore in a girl than just her body. So, touch her beyond her body.
18. Just because you love her, she won't be able to open up so easily. So, give her time, it is a journey and not a destination, so travel along with her and enjoy the journey.
19. Let her express her inner feelings one by one and you will get to understand her true self - the self which she talks to when she is on her own.
20. From the day you see her naked soul is the day your love will turn more meaningful.
If you think this post was interesting, do let me know in the comments column.
Have a great week ahead!! :)
Take Care,
Cheers!! :)
