Love for Blogging! :)

Feels like I found back my love for blogging. Very happy to have checked all my friends blogs today and read their recent posts. Left my opinions as comments on most of them, will go back to write some more tomorrow as well!!

But feels great, its been years since I lost my touch in the blog world, I tried to get back but was hard to find my lost ground, many times I made a comeback only to turn silent again. This time I feel something really special about blogger than facebook - that makes me believe that I am here to stay :) You get all the attention you want in facebook but you can express your views the best here :)

Many thanks to Ramesh Bhai and all my friends over here who always visited my blog even during my silence - to cheer me up with their comments!!

Take care, Cheers!! :)

Some people don't like you...

Don’t worry about people that don’t like you. Enjoy the ones who do.

Not until recently did I realize that there are some people in my friends who don't like me.

I got habituated living 24 years of my life with a confident feeling that am accepted everywhere I go for the person that I am; people give back a smile which warms the heart but since last year it was hard for me to acept that there are some friends around me who dislike me for no reason or mistake of mine.

In your life, you meet a lot of people. Some you never think about again. Some, you wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some you wish you never had to think about again. But you do.

How does it feel when you are disliked by someone whom you have a lot of value and respect for, never hurt them, whose friendship is precious to you, those you were always truthful and honest with?

You know - 'It really hurts'.

Its not a situation about chemistry between lovers, I say this in case of friendship.

Ofcourse am no saint to get accepted and liked by everyone, I know my setbacks and understand that I do repeat my mistakes sometimes but am working towards being a better human - you show me my fault, I'd give you a heart felt sincere apology.

I simply come to a conclusion that, "In life there is no need to please everyone, do what you believe, be honest to yourself and show your love and care to those who accept you for the person you are".

Have a nice weekend :) Take care :)

Happy Mother's Day!! :)

Poem Title : Ma, the sweetest word...

O sparrow from distant lands,

What is that sweetest word,

Which you heard all your life?

In the utterance of that word,

There is no fear, ache or pain,

No hunger, thirst or any desire…

The word is the best in any language,

The word is the source for every race,

'Mother' is that word, ruling the world…

Mother is the synonym for heaven,

Mother is address of an open heart,

Mother is a pool of cool moonlight...

Ma’s love fills an empty stomach,

Ma’s slap blesses cheek to turn rosy,

Ma’s shade is cooler than the snow...

Ma’s smiles are brighter than sun rays,

Ma’s touch has the comfort of a feather,

Ma’s eyes have the kindness of universe...

Forgive me Ma for hurting you sometimes,

I wish you a very Happy Mother's day,

From the bottom of my heart…

Lots of Love, Ur Son xx

Unconditional Love...

Dear Readers, this is the 100th post of Beyond Barriers... thank you all for the support and encouragement since 2008 :)

Does true love really exist beyond movies and novels? How exactly does it feel to love or be loved by someone unconditionally?

Loving a person as a whole, for what they really are, accepting their flaws, having no complaints or demands, genuinely caring and wishing for their happiness, expecting nothing in return. Can we call it as unconditional love?

Based on our personal experiences, each one of us might have a different definition for this, but still its more or less the same.

A mother loves her child when he is obedient; when that same child disobeys her, spoils the house, she will still love him the same and nothing less. So irrespective of the child's actions and choices, parents love remains unconditional.

Some get it from family, some from friends, some feel it while praying to God, some from their pets, etc. Unconditional love is in every bond, but once people start expecting something in return, it seizes to exist, else it flows forever in the hearts which are open and innocent.

Love is real when we appreciate a person straight from the heart, this bridges gaps, differences, allowing hearts to blossom. This theory need not relate to lovers love, it can hold good to any relationship.

Unconditional love requires a little compromise, some sacrifice and willingness to look from the other person's perspective. If we are ready for it, then we can have it.

Start giving the love which you really wish to receive, Start loving unconditionally... 


Have a nice day, take care :)