I know you want me to scream your name, but I want to whisper your name into the soft skin of your jawline, into the tender throb of your neck's pulse, into the nook where your neck meets your shoulder. I want you to remember the hiss of my breathe and the way my lips form your name until it caresses your very existence.
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Little things you do for her makes a lot of difference. Like:
- Actually listening to what she says.
- Sharing everything with her without needing to keep any secrets cause you both accept each other the way you truly are.
- Taking her for a date night where you make her feel like a princess and pay attention to only her.
- Smile at her across a crowded room.
- Opening doors for her.
- Cooking together.
- When she is washing the dishes, grab the kitchen towel and start drying the dishes and slowly hold her from behind and kiss her neck.
- Watching her favourite program on TV together.
Doing all this is truly worth the effort cause she will appreciate everything.
It might sound easy to say but is it really hard to put into practice? Well, if you really love your girl, you will do anything to make her happy.
Ok, now you ask me what will I do for my girlfriend?
I will...
- Buy her favourite flowers and will make a customized bouquet instead of a store-bought one.
- Put socks and trainers on for her in the sports shop when she can't bend down to do it herself.
- Give her a gentle massage when she is tired. Will turn our home to a mini spa by applying relaxing massage lotion to her hands and feet. Massaging her neck, back and legs without expecting anything in return.
- Leave little sticky notes for her to find when she comes back home.
- Take her out to romantic candle-lit dinners and walks along the beach in bright sunshine.
- Show her that my love is true cause I'll always be there for her even after knowing her flaws and will be there for her during the not so great times. I will make her realize that no partnership is perfect but you get on with it and support each other and respect your differences, be intimate and learn to laugh together.
- Watch the date night movies cuddled nice and comfy on the couch.
- Cook her favourite dishes and on weekends, will serve breakfast in bed for us and will do lots of barbeques in the summer
And in future, when we decide to have our baby and when she's pregnant:
- I will give her 100% comfort and nothing less. Will clean the house, will cook for the family, wash the dishes, dry the dishes, will do the laundry, will buy the required weekly groceries.
- Will bring her books that she likes to read, DVDs of movies that she wants to watch and the food that she likes to eat.
- Will sit next to her on the bed, holding her hand when she goes into labor and will do everything to make her feel safe and confident.
- Once we have the baby, will wake up in the night to feed the baby, will wake up early in the morning to prepare food for both the mother and the baby for the day so I can go to work and will do the same after returning home from work. Will give them the same care until she completely heals and is back to normal.
- And will hold my new born baby closest to my heart - that will be the biggest joy of my life.
What is unique characteristic every true lover should have?
Well, you should never fold under the pressure of a committed relationship on the long run. You need to always have mutual trust, care, mutual respect and compromise only wherever necessary.
Never quit when it gets a little tough. That’s when you'll know you’ve found something special. Something real. Something worth keeping. Anybody can love anybody when things are good - the real test of character is when things are tough and you should still continue to love the same.
Let's talk more in Honest Talk...Part 4. See you later.
Have a great week ahead,
Cheers!! :)
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