Happy Valentines Day!! :)

Wishing all my friends a very Happy Valentines Day!! :) 

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Here is an example of real love :

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Enjoy your day!! :)

Cheers!! :)

Love yourself first...

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. - Lucille Ball

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Recently read the below story, thought it is worth sharing:

A man went to God and asked, "What is the value of life?"

God gave him a stone and said, "Find out the value of this stone, but don't sell it."

The man took the stone to an orange seller and asked him what it's cost would be.

The orange seller saw the shiny stone and said, "You can take 12 oranges and give me the stone."

The man apologized and said that the God has asked him not to sell it.

He went ahead and found a vegetable seller. "What could be the value of this stone?" he asked the vegetable seller. The seller saw the shiny stone and said, "Take one sack of potatoes and give me the stone."

The man again apologized and said he can't sell it.

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Further ahead, he went into a jewelry shop and asked the value of the stone.

The jeweler saw the stone under a lens and said, "I'll give you 50 lakh rupees for this stone." When the man shook his head, the jeweler said, "Alright, alright, take 2 crores, but give me the stone."

The man explained that he can't sell the stone. Further ahead, the man saw a precious stone's shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.

When the precious stone's seller saw the big ruby, he lay down a red cloth and put the ruby on it. Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby.

"From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?" he asked. "Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won't be able to purchase this priceless stone from you".

Stunned and confused, the man returned to God and told him what had happened. 

"Now tell me what is the value of life, God?" he asked.

God said, "The answers you got from the orange seller, the vegetable seller, the jeweler & the precious stone's seller explain the value of life." 

"You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but people may value you based on their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, and their risk-taking ability. But don't fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true value."

In the eyes of God you are very very precious. Respect yourself. You are Unique. No one can Replace you!

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Have a great day!! 

Cheers!! 

Honest Talk...Part 3

Continued from Honest Talk...Part 2

I know you want me to scream your name, but I want to whisper your name into the soft skin of your jawline, into the tender throb of your neck's pulse, into the nook where your neck meets your shoulder. I want you to remember the hiss of my breathe and the way my lips form your name until it caresses your very existence.

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Little things you do for her makes a lot of difference. Like: 

• Actually listening to what she says.
• Sharing everything with her without needing to keep any secrets cause you both accept each other the way you truly are.
• Taking her for a date night where you make her feel like a princess and pay attention to only her.
• Smile at her across a crowded room.
• Opening doors for her.
• Cooking together.
• When she is washing the dishes, grab the kitchen towel and start drying the dishes and slowly hold her from behind and kiss her neck.
• Watching her favourite program on TV together.

Doing all this is truly worth the effort cause she will appreciate everything.

It might sound easy to say but is it really hard to put into practice? Well, if you really love your girl, you will do anything to make her happy.

Ok, now you ask me what will I do for my girlfriend?

I will...

• Buy her favourite flowers and will make a customized bouquet instead of a store-bought one.

• Put socks and trainers on for her in the sports shop when she can't bend down to do it herself.

• Give her a gentle massage when she is tired. Will turn our home to a mini spa by applying relaxing massage lotion to her hands and feet. Massaging her neck, back and legs without expecting anything in return.

• Leave little sticky notes for her to find when she comes back home.

• Take her out to romantic candle-lit dinners and walks along the beach in bright sunshine.

• Show her that my love is true cause I'll always be there for her even after knowing her flaws and will be there for her during the not so great times. I will make her realize that no partnership is perfect but you get on with it and support each other and respect your differences, be intimate and learn to laugh together.

• Watch the date night movies cuddled nice and comfy on the couch.

• Cook her favourite dishes and on weekends, will serve breakfast in bed for us and will do lots of barbeques in the summer 

And in future, when we decide to have our baby and when she's pregnant: 

• I will give her 100% comfort and nothing less. Will clean the house, will cook for the family, wash the dishes, dry the dishes, will do the laundry, will buy the required weekly groceries.

• Will bring her books that she likes to read, DVDs of movies that she wants to watch and the food that she likes to eat.

• Will sit next to her on the bed, holding her hand when she goes into labor and will do everything to make her feel safe and confident.

• Once we have the baby, will wake up in the night to feed the baby, will wake up early in the morning to prepare food for both the mother and the baby for the day so I can go to work and will do the same after returning home from work. Will give them the same care until she completely heals and is back to normal.

• And will hold my new born baby closest to my heart - that will be the biggest joy of my life.

What is unique characteristic every true lover should have?

Well, you should never fold under the pressure of  a committed relationship on the long run. You need to always have mutual trust, care, mutual respect and compromise only wherever necessary.

Never quit when it gets a little tough. That’s when you'll know you’ve found something special. Something real. Something worth keeping. Anybody can love anybody when things are good - the real test of character is when things are tough and you should still continue to love the same.

Let's talk more in Honest Talk...Part 4. See you later.

Have a great week ahead,

Cheers!! :)

Honest Talk...Part 2

Continued from Honest Talk...Part 1

I strongly believe that the key for a happy relationship is "communication".

Conversation is very important cause it develops the connection between the two. It gives a deeper comprehension of each other. So in case problems or misunderstandings arise, the honest communication helps you to discuss and explore solutions in an early stage.

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As weekdays are always busy, make sure to spend the weekends together - go for a lazy long walk, talk for hours, give time to think about each other, enjoy dinner together and continue to chat away. Or spend all of Friday evening and night reading a novel together in bed, watch a movie and talk to each other, share experiences of the week - be it happy or sad moments - it will all help to strengthen your bond.

Reading a novel out for her or may be just hold it close so both of you can together read silently

Sometimes it is hard to find time to communicate when there is so much going on in our daily lives, especially with work - but it is definitely worth taking the time out.

"Cause here we are again in the middle of the night dancing 'round the kitchen in the refrigerator light"

Always reach out and touch each other even during times when you both feel hopeless. Try making it a compulsory rule to hug each other after a disagreement or an argument. After every misunderstanding both feel bad but swallow your pride and give each other a close bear hug even if you just had an argument. The hug will make you both forgive each other quickly.

"You're a bit close," she whispered. "I know," he grinned. He was right in front of her. Barely a breaths width between them. But not touching. The sky began to mist down on them but neither moved. She was trapped. By some spell. Keeping her eyes and body locked into place. A slow smile appeared out of nowhere and creeped up her face, "You gonna do something, or just stand there?". She thought he'd move away. Break the spell. He didn't.

Make her laugh outdoors

Make her laugh indoors

Most importantly, make her laugh in bed...

Gotta go now, so let's continue our talk later, see you in Honest Talk...Part 3

Take care until then,

Have a nice week ahead,

Cheers!! :)