27 December, 2009

Winter Love...




Come winter princess, come and sing with me,

Those songs of winter skies which caress the earth,

Making the ocean tides rise high to touch the sky,

Come closer to melt in the warmth of my hug...



Come winter princess, come and dance with me,

Let the dancing snowflakes tickle the chilly breeze,

As my heart’s candlelight gives a glow to your smiles,

Cover my face with the warm blanket of your tresses...



-xxx-

13 December, 2009

Romancing Dusk...


What would you do when you are alone at a lake during the hour of dusk? Well, here is an account of what I’ve done today, late this evening:

It was the hour when birds started returning to their nests; in each flap of their wings I could smell the scent of sun.

The sky being god’s own colouring book, you find him always filling it with his favourite colours. Now, let us observe here, the quiet colours of dusk.

After collecting a few pebbles from the ground, I happened to step on a dried leaf and as it got crushed under my feet, out came a "crispy sound" - the leaf was long dead so it couldn't shed a tear drop like we humans do.

I then sat on a bench close to the lake and began dropping the pebbles, one by one into the lake and watched the ripples dance…

Every time a pebble touched the lake surface it gave out a cry, “plop” was the sound which echoed deep into the empty halls of my heart.

As each pebble sank down the throat of the lake, the fish below whispered tales of silence to each other.

A squirrel nearby took courage to question me, “Why did you put such a blank expression on your face, your silent eyes tell stories of emptiness”.

“Dear little squirrel, it’s not sadness that touched me, it’s not happiness that tickled me, it’s the infinite nothingness that filled my heart”.

“Infinite nothingness? What does that mean?” asked the cute squirrel twirling its tail.

“Though life’s journey remains a mystery, just observe carefully around and you will understand the inner meanings of our existence”

“Look at this hour of dusk with stillness in every pulse, each second is separated from the next by an eternity. When all the earth’s colours are spent through the day, it is time for the shadows to take over”

“In the open sky amidst the clouds, the space expands vastly. There is no sun, no moon, no stars, no fairies, no angels, quite hollow the vast expanse is with voidness lingering in great solitude”

“Now close your eyes and imagine you are swimming in the hollow sky, leaping across time and space with no limits, the clouds give you a warm hug and bury you in their dusty folds"

"Look outside the window of your mind, there is a new world out there”

You will forget yourself for the moment and become one with dusk. No worries, no responsibilities, no stress - just peace and silence totally envelop you…

Just living in the moment during the hour of dusk with a calm mind - this is what I labeled as

“ The Romancing of dusk….. ”


--- xxx ---

17 November, 2009

Little Son to his Ma...



"I love you, Ma", said little Son,
"I love you more than words can ever explain"

"Today, I'll help you all I can",
Saying so he tidied all the rooms,
Washed all the clothes n dishes,
Cooked tasty food for his Ma...




"I love you, Ma", again he said,
"I love you better than tongue can ever tell"

"Today, I'll make you the happiest",
Saying so, he sang Ma's favourite songs,
Wrote many poems n funny tales for her,
Trekked a beautiful mountain with her...




"I love you, Ma", smiled little Son,
"I love you so much that my love fills up this universe"

"Today, I'll spare my every second listening to you",
Saying so he listened to all notable events of her life,
Absorbed all of Ma's worries n promised to fulfill all her dreams,
Then tickled her heart with his sparkling smiles, giggles n laughs...




"I love you so much, Ma", said a sleepy little Son,
"I love you more than any son could ever love his mother"

Trying with the best of his efforts,
Busy & occupied all the day he was,
Helpful and happy as a child could be,
His mother Ma was rejoiced to infinity...




Then Ma notices her tired little child slept on the couch,
Gently she lifts him, hugs n carries, lays him on his bed,
Covers him with a soft n comfort, warm n colourful bedsheet...



"I love you, my dear Son", said Ma,
"I love you more than you would ever know"

"May God bless you always my dear, wish you heavenly dreams"
Saying so she grabs his favourite brown teddy bear, tucks it close by his side,
Plants soft n caring kisses on his eyes, cheeks and forehead...




- Dedicated to my Ma : Mom you are the best, I love you forever & ever -

12 October, 2009

Badly Missing Blogger...

A smiling cheerful "Hi" to all my dear friends and readers.

I'm doing fine and hope the same with you. I've left home for the first time in my life last month to join my dream job and I took my time to adjust living independent.

A new better job adds value to our career making our eyes shine brighter than before. But it brings along new responsibilities with it which eat into our leisure time as well. Since September, my new job took over me and I couldn't manage well with blogger or any of my other hobbies.

I miss a good family of friends here at blogger and wish to always stay in touch with everyone of you. If you like to share your smile with me and wanna know more details about my new job, please feel free to write a mail to my personal i.d. - sayhisaicharan@gmail.com . You will get a prompt reply mail from me, it will be a nice way to stay in touch.

I'm looking forward to enjoy reading all your blogs pretty soon and share my opinions on them. I'll be back into action as soon as I get convenient access to the Internet. Till then take care, cheers to all my buddies...

16 September, 2009

Snoring on the Train...

I was travelling on Godavari Express from Hyderabad to Vizag. After having dinner, it was time to sleep.

Soothing songs on my mp3 player made me float like a feathery cloud in deep blue sky of sleep - all of a sudden, a thunderbolt struck me. Yes, a big, loud, weird and a deadly thunderbolt.

From the middle birth, I bent down to find that the tall hefty man on lower birth was snoring at his best ever. With every exhalation, the snore grew even louder surpassing the maximum decibel limit inside a railway compartment.


Immediately I turned the volume high on my mp3 player, but still the snore was able to murder every song that played on. I wondered whether I was sleeping inside a lion's den with the lion roaring straight into my ears.

And another surprising thing was, the way others were able to sleep with such loud sound in the air, so loud that it could tear apart every ear drum that it kisses. May be God was kind to them, blessing them to turn deaf for this one night? Or maybe everyone is afraid of disturbing the extra tall, hefty gentleman.

In the middle of the night, I somehow got the idea to wake him up and request him to sign a deal - you sleep for a few hours then give us a chance - wake up, stay awake, allow us to sleep for the same time.

But I was so doubtful whether I could convince him or not? And as I continued to ponder, the train reached its destination. I realized then that I was awake almost the whole night, unable to sleep, not even for a few proper minutes.

Well my dear friend, do spare two minutes to tell me when was the last time you were exposed to snoring at its peak levels while travelling?

Please share your experiences and suggest me any tips or tricks so that I could shield myself next time from this deadly weapon - SNORING :)

08 September, 2009

Trust...


I read this small story in a periodical today. You might have read the same or a similar one, but it’s nice to read again :)

When a soldier was injured and couldn’t get back to safety, his buddy went out to get him against his officer’s orders. He returned back mortally wounded and carried his friend on back who was already dead.

The officer was angry, “I told you not to go. Now I lost not one but both of you, it was not worth it”.

The dying man replied, “But it was more than worthy sir, because when I got to him he said, Sally I knew you would definitely come for me”.

05 September, 2009

"Beyond Barriers" 1st Birthday :)


Exactly one year ago, on 5th Spetember 2008, this blog "Beyond Barriers..." was born. Today it is celebrating it's 1st birthday along with a good circle of friends here in blogosphere :)

I started this blog last year on the occasion of my birthday and today as I celebrate my birthday again - adding one more year to my life, this blog celebrates its first birthday :)

On this special occassion, I would like to thank all my reader friends for their constant support, motivation, wishes and encouragement. This blog gave me a not simple friends but a "family of friends".

The little success whatever this blog was able to achieve in this one year belongs only to my readers and all the credit goes to my friends who regularly write their valuable opinions on my posts.

Join the celebrations :) Do check the very first post which was posted on Beyond Barriers... --> Welcome to Beyond Barriers...

Thank You, One and All... Cheers...

04 September, 2009

Blissful Morning...

Twinkling stars giggled all through the night watching themselves in the clear pond water. And deep inside a well, the image of the full moon sky floated all through the night.

Time has come for the cool moonlit night to bid farewell giving way to a sweet morning.

Bells of the temple started ringing at morning's earliest hour signaling us that it’s time to wake up. People smeared sindoor on their foreheads as morning rituals began.

Oil is poured into the temple lamps and are lighted. Every divine ray emitted from the lighted lamps is illuminating the minds of all the devotees.

The elements of nature are all at complete peace as I now begin my morning walk through the countryside…


Look how blissful the morning is…




As tender morning sun rays tickle the seeds which are sprouting from the soft and wet soil, the noblest feelings of our soul begin to glow. The wheat stalk opened its eyes as it was touched by the freshness of the morning breeze.

Look at the gardens full of blooming flowers, they are spread as far as eyes could see. Innocent flower petals are carefully observing the laughter in the sun as the sparrows flutter and spin, busily searching for grain.


Look how blissful the morning is…


Farmers began tilling their fields and planting rice saplings and are enjoying the gentle tune of flute that came wafting in the breeze which got soaked in the aroma of flowers which are blooming by the riverside.

A chubby little boy is playing his flute sitting on the bank of a river. The fresh, crystal clear river water flows carrying along with them the little boy’s tunes to distant lands.

The fisherman’s boat beside the shore smiles at the little lad who enjoys as his flute tunes dance a duet with the sparkling early morning sun rays on the river water.


Look how blissful the morning is…


Cotton wool clouds started displaying many patterns of colours this morning as they started rolling into the clear blue sky. Birds are getting thrilled at the sight of trees which are laden full of fragrant flowers and succulent fruits.

Clear cool dew drops on lotus flowers in the lake are reflecting the gentle sun rays like shinning mirrors. Flocks which are grazing on the slopes gazed upon the sun illuminated sky as they chewed tasty grass.

Children playing on the river bank started building pyramids with the river sand. Some started chasing vibrant coloured butterflies, some were after dragonflies and the others were busy collecting ripe berries.


Really so very blissful this morning is…

01 September, 2009

Alone...



Alone...


Very few people help us in life,

The rest just attend our funeral,

But will at least one among them,

Come along on the day we depart?



Parents, children, sisters, brothers,

Friends, colleagues, acquaintances,

Husband, wife, well wishers, associates,

Who will come along the day we die?



We are born alone, we die alone…

30 August, 2009

Life is a Compromise…


Life is but a compromise”, said my Ma and she continued, “You can’t get everything you want, you need to adjust. To survive in this competitive world, you should learn to sacrifice. We all have many dreams and aspirations but only few of them get fulfilled.”

Her words went straight into my heart as I always realize late in life.

Yesterday is but a dream and tomorrow is only a vision, but today can make a big difference. Yes, today well lived, makes yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a bright vision of hope.

So my dear friend, let us make the most of today; Carpe Diem - seize this day.

21 August, 2009

Evergreen Evening Song...

This evening, I walked alone on the terrace watching the golden sunset. The blowing wind whispered into my ears the soothing tune of this evergreen song...

I started singing this song aloud and was lost in the meaning of each line. My soul floated in the flavour of this song and I forgot the world around me as my mind achieved a sense of tranquility.

The mood of the song touched the bottom of my heart and tears rolled down my cheeks as the lyrics of this song reflects the events of life like a shinning mirror.

The song is from the 1970 Hindi movie "Anand". Hats of to the fabulous lyrics writer "Yogesh", the memorable voice of "Mukesh", the music of "Salil Chowdhury" and the expressions of "Rajesh Khanna" in the video, shared below from You Tube.





Kahin Door Jab Din Dhal Jaye
Sanjh Ki Dulhan Badan Churaye
Chupke Se Aaye
Mere Khayaalon Ke Aangan Mein
Koi Sapnon Ke Deep Jalaaye...


Kabhi Yunhi Jab Hui Bojhal Saansen
Bhar Aayi Baithe Baithe Jab Yunhi Aankhen
Tabhi Machal Ke Pyar Se Chal Ke
Chhuye Koi Mujhe Par Nazar Na Aaye
Kahin Door...


Kahin To Ye Dil kabhi Mil Nahin Paate
Kahin Se Nikal Aaye Janmon Ke Naate
Ghani Thi Uljhan Bairi Apnaa man
Apnaa Hi Hoke Sahe Dard Paraaye,
Kahin Door...


Dil Jaane Mere Saare Bhed Ye Gahare
Ho Gaye Kaise mere Sapne Sunahare
Ye Mere Sapne Yahi To Hain Apne
Mujhse Judaa Na Honge Inke Ye Saaye,
Kahin Door...

In the courtyard of my thoughts, this song lit the lamps of dreams…

04 August, 2009

This song made my day…

Today morning I woke up hearing to the song “Chhookar Mere Man Ko” from the 1981 Hindi film "Yaarana" which was being aired on the radio.

I watched Yaarana many times since school days and love all the songs from the movie and have them on my mp3 player. But today was different, I found this particular song more touching and felt both the tune and lyrics afresh and so allowed it to take over the rest of my day.

I was humming the song as I brushed my teeth this morning and sang it aloud as I showered. Then later I tuned it on my mp3 player and went onto hear it again and again the whole day. I lost count but I would have definitely listened to it for more than fifty times today.

This song totally touched my mind as love overflowed in my heart, changing my day into a wonderful one, making the world around me today - look very special, beautiful and lovely...

Now with this blog post, I take chance to hear it again and enjoy watching this video on YouTube.



Chhookar Mere Man Ko Kiya Toone Kya Ishaara
Badla Yeh Mausam Lage Pyaara Jag Saara

Tu Jo Kahe Jeevan Bhar Tere Liye Maein Gaoon
Geet Tere Bolon Pe Likhta Chala Jaoon
Mere Geeton Mein Tujhe Dhoonde Jag Saara
Chhookar Mere Man Ko.....

Aaja Tera Aanchal Yeh Pyaar Se Maein Bhar Doon
Khushiyaan Jahan Bhar Ki Tujhko Nazar Kar Doon
Tu Hi Mera Jeevan Tu Hi Jeene Ka Sahaara
Chhookar Mere Man Ko..
...


The ever melodious golden voice of Kishore Kumar, lyrics by Anjaan, music by Rajesh Roshan and on-screen presence by my all time favourite actor 'Amitabh Bachchan' paired with Neetu Singh - are the highlights of this song.

When was the last time a song touched your heart in the morning and went on to take over the rest of your day?

And what was that song?

24 July, 2009

Blog Template Fever…

How often do you change the template of your blog? There are many sites which offer new designs, are you interested to Spruce Up Your Blog ?

During an idle gossip with a friend yesterday, he asked me, “Why do you always keep switching over from one blog template to another? It looks so odd”.

I told him, “But variety is the spice of life, we always look for a change - we don’t eat the same food daily, we don’t wear the same clothes every day, we look for something different”.

My words made him laugh, “Variety is the spice of life – that doesn’t mean you keep changing anything and everything in life”.

He continued “Now, that is nowhere a relevant comparison which you are doing; how food and clothing can be compared with blog structure?”.

“Dude, life is more exciting when you try to do things in different ways. Blogging is just a hobby and I see it as a platform to meet good friends around, do you think changing templates has any significance?” I asked him.

He made a point, “Though I’m lazy to write a comment, I still read every post on your blog and when you keep changing templates, it is such a big distraction to a regular reader like me”.

I was surprised, “So you feel that it is better to stick on to one template and live with that all the time. Anyway, I’m going to make this chat of ours as a blog post, read it tomorrow”.

He enquired, “What is there in this to write?” I replied, “To take opinions from my other friends as well”. After his advice, I switched back to my previous template and decided to hang on to it for long.

Well, do you agree with my friend’s opinion? Does changing a blog template often, really distract regular readers?

23 July, 2009

I'll Pay, Wait I'll Pay...

“Join me at the restaurant for lunch at sharp 1:30pm”, invited a close friend. He insisted, “Make sure that you are on time”.

I reached the place by 1:20pm and after my patience was put to rigorous test, our hero finally arrived at 2:15pm and said, “Hey buddy, am I a little late?”

I looked at my watch and then stared angrily at him, “Little late? Forty five minutes?” He responded by giving helpless expressions.

We started our lunch. The various tasty and lip-smacking South Indian cuisines unleashed a never-felt-before kind of gluttonous appetite in both of us.


After our heavy lunch, we still managed to eat desserts making sure that the tag of gluttony is attached to the table we sat. Then came the bill and the waiter was expecting a handsome tip cause the bill, like our stomachs, turned heavy too.

“The bill is mine, I’ll pay it”, I said to my friend. “Wait, I’ll pay it cause I was the one who invited you here”. So saying, we both laid our hands on the bill and managed to pull it towards each other.

My friend was left with the lower piece and I got the upper piece as the waiter gave a weird expression looking at the torn bill.

We assured the waiter, “Well, our friendship is so very strong that every time we both eat outside, we end up tearing the bill.”

I continued, “Look at these items here in my piece, I’ll be paying for them and for those in his piece, he’ll be paying, got it right?”

My friend gave finishing punch to the waiter, “Dear, don’t get excited for a double tip, your tip will be given only by one of us because we don’t fight for paying tips”.

16 July, 2009

Man in Pink Socks...

“You look like a perfect gentleman”, I said as I shook hands with my cousin at one of our relatives wedding. He said, “Thanks a lot man, for such a wonderful compliment”.

A little later, we sat in the guest chairs. “My Goodness, let me just take back my compliment”. His face turned pale as he heard me say that. “Hey, gimme back the compliment, what’s the matter?” he enquired.

“Man, you wore your wife’s socks”. He rose with spontaneity,” They are not my wife’s socks they are totally my stuff”.

“They are yours? Really? Man, how could you ever think of wearing a pair of pink socks along with black leather shoes? And there seems to be even some design on them?” He argued, “Ohh these are not actually pink socks, they are sort of brown”.

I gave a puzzled look, “Sort of brown?” . He agreed soon, “Well yes, your eyesight is fine the colour is not brown but not exactly pink either. Actually the problem is I have only two pairs of socks, the dark one I wore to office today, so it’s into washing”.

“You wore a cotton rich sky blue shirt from Van Heusen, jet black formal trousers from Allen Solly and this belt it’s a good one I guess”. He carried on, “Yes, this is a genuine Italian black leather belt and the shoes I wore are designer ones with pure black leather giving the right shine”.

I interrupted, “You prefer luxurious dressing, it’s hard to believe that you have only two pairs of socks and when the dark one goes for washing, you end up wearing these light pink girlish socks to this dinner party”.

He made this point clear, “Socks are not exactly the most visible item of clothing, especially for men, cause our trousers cover till the shoe lace, so any colour would do”. I stopped him, “But when you sit down, they do grab attention, now look at yourself, you can’t cover socks when you sit”.

I continued, “I don’t know why you choose to buy such colours, you have crossed the age of thirty five, you are mature enough not to wear such kiddish stuff”.

“Man, I've not chosen this colour myself, it came along in a set of dozen socks I bought few years ago, all of them slowly worn out and I’m left with these two pairs, I don’t have the habit of buying socks when I go for shopping”.

I was surprised, “You don’t have the habit of buying socks? Man, you have two sons; they will learn these habits from you and will be laughed at in future.” He laughed out to say, “Don’t worry, my sons are too small now, we’ll think of it when they grow up”.

I promised him a gift, “Well, your birthday is still a couple of months away, you will get a box of dozen socks pairs from me as a birthday gift and don’t worry about the colour, all of them will only be jet black”.

He a gave a big smile, “Well, I’ll give this pair to my wife and tomorrow I’m going for shopping, guess what - I will spend the whole evening, only to buy the right pairs of socks which suits my formal dressing”.

05 July, 2009

“Global Warming” goes out of control...

A couple of months ago, I have attended a seminar along with a friend on “Global Warming” given by a renowned professor in a mini auditorium. We were interested to note useful points and sat in the second row, pretty near to the stage.

The seminar turned out to be so boring that everyone in the hall started feeling uneasy. The professor was stretching every single point all the way from "Kashmir to Kanyakumari". His voice was - like a bullock cart heavily loaded with paddy bags being driven through muddy, cow dung filled village roads.

Three hours passed by and the professor was in his same old ‘snail slow’ rhythm that everyone in the hall were readily waiting for a chance to run away from their chairs.

My friend whispered to me, “Man, this oldie is murdering our patience on the name of global warming; he is eating our brains like fresh chutney."

He continued, "I’m sure, his wife might have left him long back and that made him start this new way of torturing the society on the name of seminars. We should record this seminar on a handy cam and make this grandpa watch it without a break”.

I responded, “It is better to hit our head to a nearby wall instead of listening to such boring lecture. We should have sat in the back rows buddy, look the back seats are already empty, people ran for their lives”.

Finally, the seminar came to an end after three hours forty minutes. People looked so very dull and sad that the atmosphere resembled a condolence meet after a funeral.

Wonder how the end was possible to the Mahabharata of Global Warming?

The audience clapped their hands continuously till the professor got off the stage…

30 June, 2009

Tagophobia, Fear of being tagged...

Here is a post on the concept and practice of "User-Tagging" in blogger.

Tagging in general is a way of classifying and organizing information. Sometimes just one person does it and at other times it is done by a community(social tagging).

Coming to the concept of a blog - Tagging is an act of categorizing blog posts with simple key words or phrases. Well yes, labeling blog posts according to their content. Many bloggers use this tagging facility to get their content be found in search results by people who are searching for a particular topic.

But after joining blogger, I got introduced to a new kind of practice - user-to-user tagging. Now from here, all I would like to talk is about the “User-Tagging Practice”.

Are you user-tagophobic? Are you repellent towards user-tagging in blogger?




Do you feel like running away when you are tagged by a fellow blogger?

If your answer to any of the questions is yes, then just express your opinion openly that you are not interested in tagging. User-tagging is nothing but a way of interaction between a circle of friends in blogger. Why should one feel it as a punishment or a compulsion?

For all those who love privacy and like to keep their lives private, I agree that doing a tag is the most annoying thing.But please understand that those who tag you are your friends.

And friend is a person with whom you dare to be yourself...

Don’t you think a friend can understand when you make it clear about your intentions that tagging makes you feel inconvenient?

Cheer up my dear; it is just like a simple friendly game with no restrictions. So, participate only if you feel the idea is interesting or simply stay untouched by saying a good ‘No’.

Blogging is but being yourself, the way you like and all of us bloggers belong to one family…

25 June, 2009

Soul of Love...




I’m a soul full of love,

I love those who love me,

I love those who hate me,

I love those who help me,

And I love those who spoil me.



I love the orphan children down the street,

I love the weak old beggar at the traffic signal,

I love the physically challenged intelligent souls,

I love the mentally challenged innocent souls,

And I love the starving souls which are ready to die.



I love you when you talk to me,

I love you when you go against me,

I love you when you decide to kill me,

I love you as you read this line now,

And I love you after you finish with this line.



Are you ready, shall we join hands?

To do our bit for the cause of society,

To make a difference in someone’s life,

And work towards exit of the word ‘poverty’,

From the dictionary of this poverty-stricken world.

21 June, 2009

Happy Father’s Day…

Wishing a very “Happy Father’s Day” to all the readers of Beyond Barriers…


Father’s day celebrations include - surprising gifts, greeting cards, bouquets, cakes, playing games, singing, dancing, throwing a big party tonight, etc – yes, they are all part and parcel of this special occasion.

But before the celebrations start, we need to spend some time with our fathers. This is the idea which I personally follow :

Take your Dad's hands into yours, look into his eyes and say, “Dear, you are a gem of a father, you made me what I am today, you are the best; I love you Dad and I’m proud to be your child.” Plant your kisses on both of your Dad's cheeks, hug him tightly to wish him a very “Happy Father’s Day”.

We should not let opportunities slip through our fingers, we should make use of them to express our love to those who really matter to us, those who are very close to our heart. They should know how much they mean to us and that we always care for them.

So, make the most of this Father's day to love your Dad...

20 June, 2009

Yummy Mangoes…

Mango is the king of fruits and people enjoy ripe and raw mangoes alike but here I like to talk about a yummy mango.



I'm slowly savouring the lip-smacking slices of a yummy mango and every bite leaves me with a rich new luscious taste making me forget the flavour of the previous bite I took.

What can be said about a ripe juicy mango? It just rules over our senses – sweet, mouth-watering, delicious, fleshy, sugary, delectable, syrupy, succulent…

Well instead of lining up a set of synonyms together, I wonder if one can ever capture the true taste of a yummy mango in words…

Sweet mangoes are consumed in a variety of ways like slices, juice, milk shake, puddings, tarts, jelly, cakes, marmalade, etc. Now tell me which is your favourite way of enjoying a juicy mango?

So when was the last time you ate a really yummy mango?

17 June, 2009

Lonely Old Man... (Part 2)

Dear Reader, this post is the remaining half of “Lonely Old Man…”, yes it's the other half of my conversation with the old man.


After a short while, the old man finished crying, he spoke out, “I lived a life full of happiness, I had a beautiful and a very understanding wife and we were blessed with three sons and two daughters”.

“I was a cheerful but disciplined man, a government employee. I gave my children good education and the best comforts of life. I was very proud the day they got into dignified jobs, married and settled happily.”

“In those days, people around us who watched me and my wife play with our cute little grandchildren used to envy our happiness. Many of our relatives, friends and colleagues used to say that I have all the joy in this world and they wished to have lived a life similar to mine.”

Now he looked into my eyes and said, “Boy, all my life was heaven, I never knew then that there is hell waiting for me in my old age, I should have planned my life in a better way”. The old man gave a pause, so I spoke now, “But grandpa, you can still live a life of joy, yes I mean, continue living in the heaven”.

He instantly rejected my idea, “It’s all over son, people see me differently now, I’m just an old piece of scrap, they are eagerly waiting for my death so that they can relieve themselves from the responsibility of feeding and taking care of me. When I was young, I never treated my father or grandfather in this way, I always respected and loved them, I taught my children the same but they never learnt it".

“When my own children become old and face the darkness of four-walled closed rooms with painful health problems and loneliness, that day they will understand what their father went through and how much pain he felt when he was neglected”.

“Six months I live here, yes your friend’s father is my eldest son and six months I live with my middle son whose house is in the outskirts of this same city. My youngest son lives far away in Delhi but I’m too weak now for my age to travel long distances and adjust to live in a new place.”

“My two elder sons feel their aged father as a huge burden for them and they are angry on their youngest brother for living far away, safe and sound without sharing any responsibilities. And my two son-in-laws are worthless, they never respect me and they never allow my daughters or their children to visit me”.

The old man continued, “After my wife died four years ago, I had lost all the hope of my life, she was everything to me and when she was around, all my children gave both of us a lot of respect, but since her death, my sons started quarrelling over my property.”

“Unable to bear the quarrel, I legally distributed all my possessions to my sons. They acted so loving and affectionately in those days that I didn't put aside even a single penny for myself and signed off everything on their names."

"But little did I realize then, that I was doing the biggest mistake of my life”.

“That one big mistake of mine is killing me every day. I repent every minute, every second for giving everything away. Those were all my hard earned assets which I earned in a fair way spending every drop of my sweat wisely."

He concluded the conversation, "After willingly giving away such valuable treasure, even those street dogs would have been more loyal to me than these sons of mine, who carry my blood”.

Would street dogs be more loyal than his own children ?

It is a sign of - a completely broken heart…

14 June, 2009

Lonely Old Man...


Today, I visited one of my friends house; his grandpa, a man in his late eighties, sat alone in the veranda told me that my friend along with his family went on a tour and will be back in a week.

When I was about to leave, the old man said, “Boy, would you mind spending a few minutes talking to me?” I saw very lonely expressions in his eyes, his wife died few years ago and maybe he is still not able to come to terms. Without a word I went and sat down in the chair beside him.

“Among all my grandson’s friends, you are the only one who gives respect to me, do you really respect me or is it just for formality sake?”

I was surprised why he got such a strange doubt. I took his hands into mine and said, “Grandpa, I really respect you straight from my heart”. He fired another question, “Will you attend my funeral the day I die?”

Now I was totally shocked, “Why do you ask such questions, is everything ok?” He just repeated the same question, I said, “You are a very good and a kind man whom I respect a lot, and so I’ll definitely attend”.

Another question followed, “On that day, will you care to donate one drop of your tear for the sake of my soul?”. I said, “Yes I will, but here, look into my eyes and just tell me the reason, what is wrong with you?”. He never looked into my eyes but started crying so loudly that he was unable to breathe.

After a minute, he spoke slowly, “I’m all alone son, if you really mean what you said just now, you will be the only person who cries the day I die because I’m seriously unwanted by everyone around me”. He continued crying…

Those words created echoes in my heart and gave ripples to my soul…

12 June, 2009

Mother, you are Special...

My dear Mother, for few minutes just leave the world aside and visit Beyond Barriers… to read this post, written especially to surprise you and give me a chance to explain you how unique and special you are to me…

In this post, I express my love for you; that I feel very proud to be born as your son; you should know how much I admire you and consider you as the most ideal mother in this world.


In my childhood, Papa repeatedly warned you, “Stop pampering our son to that extent, you will end up spoiling him”. But you always showed confidence in me by saying, “He is too humble, honest and well-mannered for his age. I trust my blood, he can never become bad”. I’m proud today to have lived up to all your expectations my dear mother and made every word of yours true...

Though you explained me about the good and the bad, you still gave me the choice to pick my own interest. I went on to choose the right path and so I express my gratitude my dear mother, for the freedom you always give me.

I forced you many a time to lose your temper dear, but you always maintained your cool. Hats off to your infinite patience my dear mother; you never scolded me in my life; you did not slap me even once since I was born, so kind you were dear. Let every mother take you as an example and let every child be blessed like me.

I will call the world to crown you as the best mother; I will write poems expressing my love and gratitude for you; I will write your biography and distribute free copies to every mother; but whatever I may do, I know that I can never repay you back for giving this immeasurable gift of birth to my soul…

You have shown the world around you a new way to bring up children by not only pampering me but by even teaching me good behavior, morals, habits and manners; not by scolding or slapping but just with your kind motherly love.

You are one of the best moms in this world; you are very unique and very very special… love you my dear mother...

11 June, 2009

Boxing on The Road…

A speeding truck hit a luxury sedan car from behind, crushing the right side rear portion of the car leaving a huge dent and smashing all the indicator lamps into tiny fragments.

A man furiously stepped out of the car, got into a heated argument with the truck driver and they started hitting each other like hooligans. The skinny traffic constable with a newly appointed look on his face was shouting madly into his walkie-talkie for support.

The road resembled a boxing ring with two finalists in their last round for the world championship title. The constable was the referee and the people caught in traffic jam were silent spectators with eagerness in their expressions to see who is going to win the title.

My cousin remained seated behind me as we both were hardly a few yards away from the accident spot and the ongoing fight. He said, “Well, this looks so weird; everyone is having fun by watching the fight, why doesn’t anyone step forward to stop them?”

I responded, “Man, shall we both give a try? Maybe together we can possibly stop them; the problem here is who can take the first initiative, I’m sure the others will join hands to stop this drama and clear the traffic.”

He caught hold of my hand, “Are you crazy? If we go there, we may even get hit by one of them. Do you think it’s a joke to stop two men who are fighting like dogs on the road?”

We heard the siren of the traffic monitoring jeep, the lonely traffic constable got back a new life as all his prayers into the walkie-talkie were finally answered. Within half-an-hour the traffic got cleared allowing us to breathe fresh air again.

My cousin cautioned, “Better let your idea of stopping a fight remain just an idea. Dude, it’s easier to expose guts by talking something brave but its never a cake walk to face harsh realities in life, so don’t ever dare to think of implementing such ideas in future”.

09 June, 2009

Wishes for my dear Mother...

Wishes for my dear Mother...


Wish every morning in your life be a spring morning Ma,
With fresh soothing breeze gently touching your cheeks...


Wish every noon in your life flow like a sparkling river Ma,
With your shining pearl like eyes singing melodious songs...


Wish every evening in your life be a golden evening Ma,
With the fragrance of blooming jasmines filling your lungs...


Wish every night in your life be a full moon night Ma,
With the cool moonlight carrying peaceful heavenly dreams...

03 June, 2009

Sunset by the Lake...


I sat alone on a bench, located by the side of the silent and secluded lake as sun is about to set, marking the end of this day.

I carried with me a bag full of experiences and emotions, some joy and some sorrow which I collected restlessly all through the day.

Now as I relax to refresh my mind, I could hear silence around me and even its loud echo…

As the lake stared at me with wide unblinking eyes, I was struck dumb;

I felt like smiling… But there are no more smiles left for this day as I gave away all my smiles to the orphan children down the street this morning…

I felt like laughing… But there are no more laughs left for this day as I lavishly spent them during the lunch hour with friends…

I felt like crying… But all my tears are still at my home, safely locked in my cupboard; I forgot to carry them along with me when I left home this morning…

As the sun set slowly, the lake continued to stare at me, hoping that I will respond…

I remained silent - " expressionless… "

02 June, 2009

Welcome Monsoon...

Summer season in India is almost packing its bags for a vacation as rainy season is ready to join the duty.


The spongy white rabbit is eagerly waiting for the first drop of rain from the sky…

Where are the rains... Where are the cool rains...

The new born puppy asked his mother, “How does rain look like Mama?”

His mother replies, “My dear puppy, this is going to be your first rainy season, you know the rain drops look like pearls, have little patience, the cool rains are almost here”.

The cool rains are already on their way so the celebrations began…

The frogs are bursting with joy as they watch the peacocks dance to the tunes of parrots and pigeons…

The sparrow's family visited the dove’s nest this evening and they just began singing in chorus and announcing in loud jubilant voices the arrival of rainy season...

A herd of deer is playing a game of hide and seek as the eagle gives effortless smiles watching them from high above…

Come cool rains, come and wet the parched lands which were burned down by the scorching summer heat and touch the hearts of people…

Are you ready to taste the fresh sweet drops of the first rain?

18 May, 2009

Calm and Peaceful Morning…

Colourful dreams spring up in my heart this morning which is calm and peaceful…

The mountains are silently speaking to the trees; trees are speaking to leaves; leaves to flowers and flowers to butterflies. The butterflies now come near me and speak of silence, calmness and peace…

One butterfly looks into my eyes and listens :

My lips remained still as I spoke with my eyes, "At one corner of the street, a mother, who got up early this morning, kisses the sleeping child. And at an other corner, the Worldly people ask - How can tiny drops dare hope to declare any relationship with the ocean? "

The ocean is nothing but a collection of drops, but if every drop detaches itself and stays separate, will there be any ocean?

Now, should the ocean be called as a huge collection of drops or should a drop be called as a part of the ocean?

Without the drops, will the ocean have any identity? Without the ocean, will the drops have sufficient identity?

Hearing the questions, the butterfly laughs :

"Your life is a journey, you are just a traveler; you are moving from soul to soul, drifting from dream to dream and God, who is watching you from above, enjoys your tour."

God as a poet writes the poem of your life…

“What am I dear butterfly? What is my true identity? ", I question with my eyes again.

“You are a Nursling of Mother Nature”

"My gratitude dear butterfly, where have you come from, now where do you go? "

"I was born in the beautiful gardens of your soul, I live drinking the sea of nectar from the flowers bloomed in your heart and now I fly back into the garden of your soul again, to live there forever."


Saying so, the butterfly flew, it flew into the magnanimity of my mind; it flew into the generosity of my spirit and it flew into the nobility of my soul…

17 May, 2009

My Lonely Life…

Here is my poem on loneliness - it’s a collection of my thoughts on lonely life…


My Lonely Life...

Early in my childhood
A thorn pierced my heart
As I grew, it tore deeper
With age, I realized it was

The thorn of loneliness…

In joy I laugh, in pain I cry
Among crowd and at party
I walk, I talk, I sit and I move
With my family, with friends

But always feel I’m alone…

Tears, wrung from my heart
Soak through my soul which
Got devoured by loneliness
The day I die, will I have to

Carry my own corpse, alone?

14 May, 2009

The Unchained Dog…

I simply ignored the board “Beware of Dog” hung outside as I swiftly opened the gate and stepped in. When I turned back to close the gate, there was a bark, a fierce bark, loud enough to bring a chill down my spine and frightening enough to triple my heart beat.

His eyes resembled those of an angry wolf, his teeth were sharp, eager to dig into my flesh and his huge tongue was as red as a tiger’s tongue with taste buds waiting to taste my blood.

For a second, I stood like a newly carved out statue as he stared at me like an enraged lion which is ready to pounce on its prey. Droplets of his saliva leaked from his mouth as he felt me like a big bundle of flesh and bones covered with some pieces of cloth.

The barking sound became even louder but I resembled a rock, stayed calm and composed. Here I compliment myself for not raising a panic as I was aware that animals, especially dogs go crazy if they spot nervousness in a stranger.

It was a German shepherd (also called as Alsatian), a member of the breed which has great reputation for aggression. This breed of highly active dogs is responsible for more random bites than any other breed.

So, what was the end result for all the pains I took to stand still; within a few seconds he stopped barking, licked both my feet and just stepped aside giving me way to go inside the house.

Well buddy, when was the last time you met an unchained dog and how did you manage to win the situation?

12 May, 2009

The Funny Question…

Right after I graduated a few years ago, I had been to Bangalore city to attend a couple of interviews. And in one of the interviews, during the personal round, I was asked a funny question.

As I stepped into the room, the young HR manager welcomed with a big smile on his face. After a few questions on my bio data, then came the big question, “Tell me one simple and easy way to kill time?”. The question left me surprised. He continued, “I give you exactly one minute to think and don’t give regular answers, I expect an ‘out of the box’ kind of answer from you”.

In that one minute, I thought about a hundred ways and finally spoke out, “Sitting silently near a milestone on a highway, go on eating peanuts and counting the cars and buses which pass by”. He laughed as he heard me give that answer, “Great idea, so what do you do when there is no traffic on the highway?”

I spontaneously sprang with an answer, “Look at the clouds in the sky and forget time”. He laughed again, “Gentleman, your answer impressed me; you can look at the results after two days, good luck”. I left the room after shaking hands with him.

But after two days, my name was missing in the final selection list and I knew the reason - my answers were not up to the mark during the technical round as it was the toughest one I ever faced. But the interview gave me a funny moment to cherish for long…

Dear reader, what would be your answer to the funny question, if you were in my shoes?

10 May, 2009

Happy Mother’s Day…

Wishing all the readers of Beyond Barriers… a very “Happy Mother’s Day”.

This post carries the very first poem I wrote in my life, “Mother, my Mother”. And the first person to whom I showed it and dedicated it, was my own mother and after reading, she failed to control her emotions that day.

Now today, I take the opportunity on this special occasion to share it with all of you.

Mother, my Mother…

When I was a wandering soul, dear mother,
You offered me the holy gift of birth on this Earth

Those months when I lived in you, dear mother,
You generously shared me your breath and blood.

The day I got introduced to this World, dear mother,
You took me in arms and put me close to your heart

With your first kiss on my tiny forehead, dear mother,
You turned all those curvy fate lines I had into smooth ones

In the garden we sat during the spring season, dear mother,
You showed me how the flower proposes marriage to the butterfly

When the domestic chores demanded your attention, dear mother,
You spent the whole day caring, tickling, laughing and playing with me

While I learnt my first multiplication table at school, dear mother,
You forgot to even comb your hair and pondered about my life, my future

When I lied motionless on the bed with high fever, dear mother,
You skipped your meals and sleep to serve me all along the day and night

Unlike other woman of your age who desire for riches, dear mother,
You always kept your life simple, serene, self-effacing and sacrificing for me

As a stream of blood oozed incessantly out of my first wound, dear mother,
You shed tears ceaselessly while tying the bandage and felt my pain as yours

Now, bless me with the opportunity to worship you, my dear own mother,
I shall collect the purest drops of the morning dew to wash your ever kind feet

As every cell in my body offers prayers and salutations to you, dear mother,
I shall pluck the first bloomed flower of the spring and decorate your holy feet

And finally, If God grants me the biggest wish of my lifetime, dear mother,
I pray that for every birth on this Earth, you are the mother and I am your child

29 April, 2009

Experience teaches the Essence of Life…

Here is a conversation I have framed between a mother and her child and this is particularly directed to those parents who care for their infant children excessively…



When it started raining outside dear mother, you said, “Don’t go out dear, if you get drenched in the rain, you will catch cold”. I followed your words mother, but I never knew how the touch of a cool rain droplet felt like…

When the southern breeze blew through the window dear mother, you said, “Close the window panes dear, dust will settle on your throat and cough will bother you”. I followed your words mother, but I never knew how it felt when the moisture in the wind caresses the cheeks…

On the first day of my summer vacation dear mother, you said, “Stay indoors dear, the hot sun rays will burn your skin”. I followed your words mother, but I never knew how the warmth of a sun ray feels like…

When I was about to lay hands on the novel beside my pillow dear mother, you said, “Sleep dear, if you go on reading till late night, your eyes will strain and your sight gets shorter”. I followed your words mother, but I never experienced the thrill in finishing an interesting novel within a short period…

As long as I was in your lap, it was like heaven my dear mother but as I grew up, one fine day, you stopped suddenly and told me to go ahead and face the outside World on my own. But mother; the path in front is full of storms, full of heat, full of heavy wind and full of stresses and strains.

The child starts questioning now:

You never allowed me to know the rain mother, now how do you think I can face storms?”

You never allowed me to know the warmth of a sun ray mother, now how do you think I can face the heat?

You never allowed me to know the touch of gentle breeze mother, now how do you think I can face the heavy wind?

You never allowed me to strain my eyes for a few minutes mother, now how do you think I can face the bigger stresses and strains of life?

The mother gets tears, hugs her child, plants a kiss on the forehead and says, “Yes dear, I should have given you one chance to know the minimum basic realities of life which would have given you confidence to boldly face the World today…

19 April, 2009

Few kind words heal a tired heart…

Here is an experience of mine which is quite lengthy and I could have easily trimmed it and made it short but I feel it is worth sharing every bit of it with all my readers…

Well, my dear reader, please read it only at your leisure...

On a hot summer evening, I sat relaxed, having a sip of orange juice and reading the newspaper. Just as the clock ticked 6:30pm, the door bell rang. As I was alone at home, I stepped forward and opened the door; a young salesman stood right in front of the door. He had a huge bag hanging down his shoulders and was fully drenched in sweat.

“A very good evening to you sir, this is Siddharth from the company ‘X’, your good name please”. Saying so he offered me a shake hand; “Well hi, I’m Sai Charan”, we shook hands. “Sir, I have a very special product waiting for you“. He immediately put his hands in the bag and pulled out a box. He put the box in my hands and said, “Take a look at it sir, I will explain you the features”.

I interrupted, “Man, this is a mixer grinder, my mom does the cooking work, she just went out, go round the other flats and come back later”. He continued, “A brand new design, new technology with special multi-blade arrangement…” I took it over from him, “Stop it right now, it’s no use explaining it to me, my mom is the kitchen in charge, she will look into all these kind of stuff. But I’m afraid you can’t be lucky here as we always go for established brands and products from recognized companies”.

He calmed down, “OK, you need not buy, it’s enough if you people just know it; I will wait till your mother returns back”. After a small gap, he spoke again, but this time his voice trembled, “Sir, can I have a glass of water please, just one good glass of water”. I looked at him, my goodness he is crying, tears started rolling down his cheeks.
I stepped forward, put a hand on his shoulder and said, “Leave your shoes outside and come in”. I then made him sit right underneath the fan and brought him a glass of water along with a glass of the same orange juice I was having. He drank the water as his sweat slowly started to dry. But he refused to take the juice, I said, “Give me company, I’m having the same”; I showed him my glass.

After few minutes, he looked much better, I went on to ask, “Don’t I look like a person who can give you at least one good glass of water? What made tears roll in your eyes?”. He spoke silently, “I had a very bad day today, I couldn't sell even one product and I’m getting severe pain in my stomach as I skipped both my breakfast and lunch to cover more houses but luck is just not on my way. I got vexed up doing this job, but it is the only source I have to get my bread and butter."

I went in and brought him some biscuits in a tray. “It’s not right to roam around in hot sun without taking food, do you think a hungry man can convince or sell anything?” He spoke out, “I’m giving you a lot of trouble, why do you offer biscuits to just a passing salesman?” “Now, stay at peace, loosen your tie and remove that tag of yours, look, you were not born a salesman, right now, I can only see a tired soul in you, not a salesman”.

After ten minutes, he stood up from the chair “I take your leave dear Charan, it was pleasure meeting a person like you, you know wherever I go, everyone slam their doors right on my face but I feel proud, you treated me not like a dog, but a human”. I asked him, “But, I believe, you wanted to explain something to my mother, she may be here any minute”.

He laughed as he said, “Forget about this my friend, I will never sell it to people like you, it’s not a good product, there are a lot of customer complaints on this one, even I don’t like it myself but unfortunately, I have been into advertising this one right from its launch”.

I shook hands with him again, “OK, take care then, maybe I will find you with a different product the next time, you look really fresh now, a few refreshments changed you, be cautious, don’t think of skipping meals next time, you may even faint, it’ll put you down”.

“No, it’s not the refreshments you gave which worked for me but those few kind words you spoke yes they healed my tired heart, they poured into me a new lease of life, I’ll not go home just yet, I will try my luck a few more hours, I feel confident now. Today I'm with company "X" and tomorrow I may be with company "Y" but I will not forget you, I’ll visit you every time I pass through this place, not to tell you about a product but to see your smile and say a “Hi” to you. Saying so, he walked away waving his hand to me.

Really, a few good and kind words can heal a tired heart… leaving a big bundle of joy to cherish for rest of the day…

12 April, 2009

My First Blogger Award :)

Margaret gave me this "I Love your Blog" award. Thanks a million Margaret for choosing me as one of the recipients of this prestigious award.

Right from the day I started this blog, you have always extended your support and encouragement with your kind and ever inspiring words. You were my first blogger friend, you were the first follower of this blog and now it's my pleasure to receive my first blogger award from you for Beyond Barriers...
Keep writing more and more poems and continue this good work of encouraging new bloggers by guiding them like a teacher with your inspiring words.


Now for the rules:
1) Add the logo of the award to your blog.
2) Add a link to the person who awarded it to you.
3) Nominate at least 7 other blogs (Only if you like).
4) Add links to those blogs on your blog.
5) Leave a message for your nominees on their blog.

I'd like to nominate:
R.Ramesh because his writings are out of ordinary and makes the reader laugh his heart out. He is a famous blogger and has received many prestigious awards but this one is just a token of friendship from my side.

Magenta Fire because she shares quite interesting writings and tips on pets like horses, dogs, etc and also shares fascinating photographs, excellent recipes and writes remarkable poems on nature's beauty, seasonal changes, etc.

Sandhya because she shares thought provoking news articles, experiences at popular musical events, tasty and excellent recipes, cooking tips and tricks, nice movie reviews, pilgrimage visits, etc.

Soul Searcher because he writes about his experiences which are quite attention-grabbing and at the end, after narrating the experience to the readers, he derives very clear and useful morals out of them.

Onkar because he has that smart technique of handling even complex topics with utmost ease and also writes excellent poems. Every message he puts across the table is strong and appealing.
I also take this as an opportunity to express my sincere gratitude to all the readers of this blog and special thanks to those who leave their signatures on my posts in the form of comments and opinions.

Thank You...

28 March, 2009

Uncontrollable Laughing…

One of my best friends from high school has this gift of laughing continuously, without a gap. Whatever may be the reason, however simple the joke might be, he just laughs out loud.

Once when we were in sixth standard, during a mathematics class, when the teacher was busy solving a problem on the black board, there was a tiny joke cracked in the back benches. The joke soon spread to the whole class. This friend of mine, who was sitting beside me, started laughing loudly, uncontrollably and in full volume of his throat.

The teacher turned back, came running towards our bench and gave him a tight slap and told him to get out of the class. The slap was so hard that his face turned red and one could clearly spot four big finger marks on his fair cheek. After the class, I went in search of him; I expected him to be sad and guilty and prepared myself to comfort him.

Just then, I heard loud laughing, so loud that the person who was laughing might have definitely heard the best joke of this millennium or the joke of a lifetime. I turned round the corridor and found a group of students. Among them, I spotted this same old friend of mine, who was again into loud uncontrollable laughing. It was a nice move that he managed to not only forget the pain of the slap but he got himself into happy mood again.

Laughing is considered to be the best exercise for both the heart and the brain. Once you start to smile and laugh, there is joy coming from your heart, which is the most effective way to supply oxygen to the brain.

Laughter, along with a healthy sense of humor is good for our heart. Yes, it is definitely the best medicine to our body and a regular, hearty laughter should be added to the list of our daily activities.

So friends, the next time you hear a funny joke, just go ahead to fully flex your facial muscles by laughing out loud uncontrollably...

18 March, 2009

Nilgiris Calling again…

Here is a sequel to one of my popular September'08 posts "Nilgiris Calling…"

Time for us to revisit the Nilgiris - the majestic mountain ranges with gigantic peaks, breathtaking views, lovely landscapes, widespread tea plantations, beautiful gardens, rushing streams and munificent meadows.

This view from the dolphin's nose peak provides an excellent picture of the Catherine falls and a vast expanse of verdant plains. These cool and cascading waterfalls fill our hearts with a gamut of positive emotions.

As luscious flowers bloom, they fill the air with fresh fragrance so that the birds, along with the bees and colourful butterflies, sing the song of nature's freedom and joy. This view shows us how the leaves are secretly whispering "you look amazing today" into the tender ears of the flowers.


This view from the side window of our car shows the trees with bright leaves, standing blissfully in tranquility. Even the view reflected by the car's side mirror is lovely and eye-catching.

The Rose Park in Ooty has many exotic varieties of roses. This view of the rose garden, with thousands of multi-coloured roses, is simply mesmerizing.


The Nilgiris, called the 'Queen of Hill Stations', is a true symbol of beauty and a traveler's destination of freedom, happiness and inspiration.

10 March, 2009

Fear of mortality…

One of my relative, an eighty four year old man often says, “I have just a few more years left in me and I will die soon; but you people should live happily, the future is all yours”.

Since the past two decades, we are hearing the same old dialogue from him and still he continues to speak the same. He is still a healthy man, free from any kind of disease; but I fail to understand why he always thinks that death will approach him soon. Who knows, he may live a life of more than a hundred years.


Recently at a family gathering he tried to repeat the same, but this time I interrupted, “Man, you have health, wealth, happiness and everything a man of your age needs; so why do you say such words, why not be cheerful in life?”

He smiled and said, “I don't know how to explain it now but when you actually reach old age you will realize it and then remember my words; but believe me my boy, it is not so easy to digest the fact that you are mortal and will have to die someday soon”. On hearing those words, I was left blank and confused.

Really, some people become increasingly fearful and anxious of death as they grow older.

02 March, 2009

Agonizing Sting…

This morning when I met my uncle, I noticed that his left hand was bandaged. He was unable to move his arm and said that the pain was unbearable.

When enquired, he started explaining, “As I walked into the balcony last evening, I heard a buzzing sound. I looked around and found a honey bee flying vigorously and circling me. I immediately ran into the living room and the bee followed me. Within seconds the bee stung me and vanished. I didn’t even try to shoo it away but while I was running for safety, it targeted my arm”.

He then cautioned me, “The next time you come across a bee, better be careful man, it might be an angry one”. I asked, “What exactly should we do to be safe from an attacking bee”. He pointed his finger to the bandage and shrugged, “I don’t know”.

Bee stings are annoyingly painful and deadly if the victim is allergic to bee venom. They often trigger allergic reaction and infection which include inflammation, itching, swelling and pain.

I agree that bees are very important for pollination and ecology, but human safety is also important right? So, how can we find a balanced way?

Well, if an angry bee is ready to attack you, what would be your defensive reaction?